It’s the biggest party you will ever plan. All your family and friends will be there. All eyes will be on you!!!! Ahhhh!!! This is enough to turn anyone into a complete Bridezilla.
Planning a wedding is hugely stressful for even the most laid back, organised bride, and it certainly doesn’t take much to upset the apple cart. Things can go dreadfully wrong quite quickly, communication gets mixed up, people let you down, you feel quite alone with such a huge burden, but have you stopped to consider how much this wedding has taken over your life since you got engaged? Have you been missing out on work, or trying to sneak in some planning at work when your boss is out of the office? Have your best girlfriends or bridesmaids been getting grumpy with you and your constant demands on their time? Have you yelled at your fiancé, cried often and threatened to call the whole thing off several times? If you are reading this and nodding and cringing, then you are in great danger of being a complete Bridezilla!
But have no fear, there is help at hand. These days the internet is full of great websites that can help with planning hints to alleviate the stress by walking you through the whole planning process. But if this is not enough to sooth the great Zilla, then why not invest in a bride’s best friend, the wedding planner?
Wedding Planners these days can do as little or as much as you require. They do all the negotiations on your behalf, behind the scenes, with all your wedding ideas in mind. They go into battle for you sorting out best prices and tie up all those loose ends that would otherwise drive you crazy.
Your wedding planner will help you stick to your budget and shape the wedding of your dreams in the most relaxed way possible. You will be relaxed anyway, they will be the busy one. It is certainly worth considering hiring one, if you have a full time job, a family already, or loads of commitments, or just perhaps the thought of planning such a monstrous event, turns you green! There are lots of different planners to choose from, and you will know when you have selected the right fit. As well as their utmost expertise (and they do know their stuff, trust them) it is also a personality based business, and they have the right type to deal with all the different stresses that come with putting together your fabulous big day. Plus they will have already hand-picked several of the top companies they know to be reliable, to make sure it all runs smoothly for you.
So if you find you have started the journey of planning your wedding day, and it’s all spiralling out of control, or you just can’t seem to cope with bringing it all together, check out some planning websites, and if you need more guidance than that, then definitely consult with a Wedding Planner and work it into your budget. Next to your amazing gown, it will be money well spent!