Your role as a bridesmaid extends to the digital realm - here’s how to be a social media superstar without stepping on any virtual toes. ✨

Before the Big Day 📆

The excitement of being chosen as a bridesmaid often leads to an immediate urge to share the news on social media. However, pause before posting that bridesmaid proposal box! 🎁 Always let the bride announce her engagement and bridal party first. Some couples prefer keeping their wedding planning journey private, whilst others love sharing every detail. Your first task is to have a frank conversation with the bride about her social media preferences. 💬

Dress Shopping and Fittings 👗

The golden rule for dress shopping posts: never reveal the wedding dress before the big day! Whilst you might be eager to share photos from your bridesmaid dress fittings, ensure you've got the green light from the bride first. Some brides prefer keeping all wedding attire under wraps to maintain an element of surprise. If you do post, consider using the "Close Friends" feature on Instagram for more selective sharing. 🤫

Hen Party Protocol 🎉

What happens at the hen do doesn’t necessarily need to stay at the hen do - but it should stay off social media until you've checked with the bride! Consider creating a private WhatsApp group for sharing photos amongst the bridal party instead of posting everything publicly. If you're planning to share, use appropriate hashtags and avoid anything that might embarrass the bride or other attendees. 🥂

Wedding Day Guidelines 💒

  • Never post before the couple
  • Check if there’s an official wedding hashtag
  • Respect the "unplugged ceremony" request if made
  • Wait for professional photos rather than posting unflattering candids
  • Be mindful of group photos - ensure everyone looks their best

Professional Photo Sharing 📸

Once the official wedding photos arrive, follow these guidelines:

  • Wait for the couple to share their favourites first
  • Credit the photographer when sharing
  • Choose photos that show the couple and day in the best light
  • Use the couple’s official wedding hashtag
  • Consider timing - don’t flood feeds with wedding photos months after the event

Privacy Considerations 🔒

Remember that wedding details like venue locations, timing, and guest lists should be treated with discretion. Avoid posting anything that might compromise wedding day security or spoil surprises planned by other members of the wedding party. 🤐

When in Doubt, Ask ❓

Create a simple social media checklist with the bride, covering:

  • Preferred hashtags
  • Photo-sharing preferences
  • Timeline for posting
  • Must-have photo moments
  • Off-limits subjects or moments

The Morning Of ☀️

Behind-the-scenes preparation photos are lovely, but ensure you:

  • Avoid posting anything that shows the final hair and makeup look before the ceremony 💄
  • Keep location tags turned off until after the ceremony 📍
  • Focus on being present rather than documenting everything 🎯
  • Check that any getting-ready photos don’t reveal details the couple want to keep private 🚫

Final Tips 💫

Remember that your role as a bridesmaid includes being a guardian of the couple’s special moments. When in doubt, err on the side of caution and always ask before posting. Your social media discretion will be greatly appreciated and helps maintain the magic of the wedding day. ✨